Top things you can do to ensure your happiness.

In honor of International Happiness Day, I have compiled a list of things that either reminds us of what happiness can be or what we can do to get to a state of happiness.

  1. People demonstrate what they are. We don’t pay attention to the signs.stop
  2. People are what they are, not what you want them to be.
  3. Life doesn’t happen to you. You have to play an active role in shaping it.
  4. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. Identify the reason things are compelling you to do the things that you don’t want to do/that don’t make you happy.
  5. Sometimes you only realize someone’s worth when they are gone.
  6. Spending time with someone that doesn’t make you happy delays your happiness and theirs.
  7. You choose all that you allow in your life.

42 thoughts on “Top things you can do to ensure your happiness.

      1. Here at my office not everyone is allowed to access blog sites so I copy pasted your post to an email and shared with my coworkers :). Nothing but positive feedback!!

        1. Wow! Thanks so much for sharing my work! So glad to hear that it’s receiving positive feedback. Do you mind letting me know the gender breakdown of the coworkers? The reason I ask is because I am always curious to know what people respond to more and if there are things that men vs women prefer. Most of my readership are female. So, when I do have a captive male 🙂 I have to ask 🙂

            1. You are awesome! Thank you so much for providing me feedback, sharing your perspective and for sharing my work! I really appreciate it! I’m really thrilled to know that you enjoy reading my perspective!

  1. My sincere wish you are able to shape your life towards the fulfillment you desire, and surround yourself with people who contribute positively to your life.

    Best wishes,


      1. I’m flattered that you’re flattered :). Keep up the good work. I thought it was funny when I liked your page on Facebook cuz people saw I liked a page called you’re just a dumbass, ha.

  2. the Invisible blog has nominated your blog for a Liebster Award. Please see details at: 😀 (Just to add to your nominated glory of a blog)

        1. You are so right! It took me awhile before I saw the laughter in some of the stuff I’ve gone through! But, now I look back and think wtf and blog about it! 🙂 Glad I could provide the comedy from time to time 🙂

  3. Can’t tell you how many relationships I was in where I superimposed my ideal woman over who I was dating. Friction always came when the two images didn’t line up. #6 is so true. Can’t begin to tell you how much time I have wasted…

  4. Howdy! This blog post could not be written any better! Going through this post reminds me of my previous roommate! He continually kept preaching about this. I will send this article to him. Fairly certain he’s going to have a good read. Thanks for sharing!

  5. I wish I had a dime for every bad article I’ve read lately. I also wish other writers had your talent and style. Thank you.

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