Ah! Love is in the air!

Valentine’s Day is approaching, aka, Singles Awareness Day πŸ™‚

Ladies, want to find a date?

1. Find yourself a steakhouse and sit at the bar. This is where the Lonely Hearts Club have their secret meetings. πŸ™‚ Seriously, the number of singles at steakhouses outweighs any other restaurant. Peak hours are right after work when most people are looking to unwind and if their single with no time to cook, eat.

2. A coffee house midday. Peak volume is in the am, but everyone is in a rush to head onto their offices. Afternoon coffee is less rushed and frenzied providing the opportunity to chat while you wait for your coffee.

Men, want to find a date?

1. Head to a lounge or wine bar after work. Women like to vent about their stressful day with their girlfriends. They usually don’t want to go to the typical bar, so they’ll opt for a place with the ability to have more conversation and intimacy.

2. Head to a dining cafe of a department store. Women usually like to shop with a girlfriend.

Not into the public scene?

Try online dating in reverse:Β https://cheekd.com.Β Cheek’d makes Lori-Cheekintroducing yourself to an intriguing stranger less intimidating by combining the charm of witty, old school calling cards with the power of the internet. It’s like online dating, backwards.

Not into online dating? Don’t want to be bothered?

LaLa Anthony has a new book, The Love Playbook Rules for Love, Sex, and HappinessΒ πŸ™‚ Get a massage, open up a bottle of wine, get out the chocolates and curl up to a book.


29 thoughts on “Ah! Love is in the air!

    1. Lol NotAPunkRocker Think that rule went out the window when online dating started or back in the day of chat rooms πŸ™‚

      Disney lies, society lies, old wives tales…it’s all the same. Gonna keep you in the house w/cats and a cane πŸ™‚

        1. You should try Cheek’d it’s a different approach and very empowering. You get cards to distribute to people that you think are attractive. It starts on conversation, then they go online to check out their profile.

          If not, I am going to buy a tiara just for you πŸ™‚

    1. Yes! That sounds like fun!

      The bottom line is to enjoy yourself however you want. People put so much pressure on that day. Did you know online dating is at its peak now till valentine’s day?

      I want people to be happy in whatever they see fit.

  1. I just realized I never had a nice valentine’s day. Not even when I was married :(. a romantic dinner sounds nice. Hopefully I will get that chance before i grow old and ugly :). Happy valentine’s day to all the lovers out there and for the single ones we still got time. I’m gonna get me a date this year…

    1. Aww honey I hope you get to have that romantic Valentine’s Day like you want. Did you know online dating is at its peak now till valentine’s day? You should try Cheek’d.

      I am positive you will find love this year! Keep me posted! Have a Happy Valentine’s Day!

  2. But, but, but…
    If all the women are staking (heh) out steak and coffee houses, and all the men are staking out wine bars and department store cafes WE’LL NEVER BE AT THE SAME PLACE AT THE SAME TIME!
    Gender divisional anarchy is what you are selling!

  3. I love your suggestion to find a steakhouse and sit at the bar! On Valentine’s day a few years ago, I went to Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse (my favorite restaurant that I would love a boyfriend to take me to on Valentine’s).

    I sat at the bar and ordered my food to go. I enjoyed a lovely glass of wine while I waited for my food and watched all the lovebirds in the restaurant swoon over each other.

    I very much so enjoyed that Valentine’s Day. I’m an avid believer that you don’t have to wait for someone to take you where you want to go!

    1. I love Ruth Chris’s! Your day sounds so lovely!

      I also believe that you have to do what makes you feel happy that day and in general. You can’t sit in wallow that you don’t have a date! That’s a temporary state which will change at some point. Wallowing doesn’t help change it!

      Thanks again for stopping by! Always love your feedback, insights, and stories! Hope you have a great week!

  4. Thanks for liking my post about my disastrous online dating! Last Valentine’s Day I accidentally ended up on a date (we didn’t realise what day it was). way to make an awkward second date even more awkward!!!

    1. Love your stuff!!! Glad you enjoyed mine as much as I enjoyed yours!!

      Aww! Sure he didn’t realize it was Valentine’s Day πŸ™‚ He was banking on you not caring πŸ™‚ You would have had better odds at a single’s event on Valentine’s Day πŸ™‚

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