Contrary to what we are told and tell ourselves as women, we are really amazing. Think about all the things you manage in a day. Isn’t it really impressive? That’s how we are meant to see ourselves.
Do people annoy you? Of course. Does life sometimes seem unfair? Of course. Do people disappoint you? Absolutely. Do you pursue what you want & feel like it’s unattainable? Of course. Do you want something so badly, yet it doesn’t materialize? Absolutely!
Here are some ways to keep you reminded of what life is really about:
1. Focusing on people that hurt you, will keep you attracting that into your life.
2. Instead of complaining about things you don’t have, focus on what you’re going to have.
3. All that you have experienced in life has made you who you are today.
4. You are meant to live a life of fulfillment and abundance.
5. When you are doing what you enjoy, opportunities are limitless.
6. Focusing on negative events in your day; keeps you in a negative state.
7. Complaining about your body or beauty, doesn’t change anything.
8. Remind yourself of how beautiful and amazing you are every morning.
9. Remind yourself that the person who annoys you for constant help doesn’t really want your help.
10. You create your reality.
AWESOME!!! WELL SAID LADY!!
Thanks love!!!!
You have impeccable timing.
Aww so glad it is helpful! I learned the hard way, girl!
don’t we all learn the hard way?
sigh.
So true! My thing is that if someone could have told me beforehand, I might have avoided most of my relationships! LOL
i dont really think so. i think you dont really learn until you go thru it. way of the world.
I agree! I think the best thing we can do is balance it out with a different perspective. So that we could minimize repeating the same life lesson and have a different experience the next encounter!
Eventually, though, we all get to the same place: plenty of stories to share!
yep. like speed dating. 25 stories all in one night.
So pertinently true 😉
Thanks Julien! Hope you have a great week!
Thanks!
Just to let know that I have abandoned the idea of days, weeks, and minutes.
I ONLY HAVE SECONDS LEFT 🙂
So I wish you in turn, many nice and inspired moments 🙂
Thanks honey! Enjoy your next 86,400 seconds 🙂
Have you published your work?
No, but I´d like to
I’m kind of wondering when a publisher shows up … 🙂
Do you know one…?
Many of my friends have self-published and hired a PR firm for the marketing. I’ll send you the link via email for the self-publishing firm.
Please do:
julienmatei@yahoo.com
Tks
Sent! Check your inbox!
Tks I received it.
Tks for your encouriging words!
Men could do well to tell themselves these things too. 🙂 but one more thing for men to tell themselves would be… Don’t treat women like objects.
You know I was thinking of creating a separate list just for men! But, you are right these are very gender neutral! I’ll include your suggestion in the male list! Thank so much for your feedback!
You’re very welcome!! Btw… I love your blog!!! I don’t always click like on things, but that doesn’t mean i don’t read them. 🙂
Thank you so much! Really appreciate the love! I know the feeling! It’s so hard to comment and like on all of the blogs that I truly adore! It would be a full-time job 🙂
I just nominated you! http://clarkkent07.wordpress.com/2012/11/26/liebster-blog-award/
Thank you so much for the nomination! Truly flattered!!!
you create your own reality.. enough said i guess, lady 🙂
thanks love! thought you would appreciate it!
Love all of these and they are the keys to happiness! #1 really struck out to me since that was the one I learned the hard way……but we need to follow all of these. So well said. 🙂
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! Believe me I learned the hard way, too!
“You create your reality” is the best one on the list, I think:)
I agree! Thanks so much for your input!
Exactly what I needed to read today -thank you!
So glad it was helpful honey! Have a great week!
More specifically, your goals. Having a direction in life for me is a key to future happiness even when it doesn’t feel like it in the present.
Thank you for your insightful comments, Chin up, Chest high! That is a great distinction. It is very helpful to project into the future, while you are dealing in the present. It helps reduce some of the anxiety the present might have.
Wonderful advice! I just finished reading Wayne Dyer’s book on Wishes Fulfilled. He espouses the “I Am” philosophy of speaking the positives and dreams into being. In other words, as I fill my subconscious mind with the positives and the wishes I have for my life the greater the likelihood of those events coming to pass. As you’ve stated in #10… we create our own realities. You’re not a “dumb ass,” friend! You’re an inspiration 😉
Thank you so much for the profound compliment! Oh my dear Marisa, I learned the hard way! But, am interested in reading Dr.Dyer’s latest. Thanks for the recommendation! Did you read Power of Intention?
Thanks so much for being so supportive when I most need it!
Ya know for a dumbass you continue to show a love inside you this world needs! Your light will change the dark in this world! This was beautiful my friend! You drink the poison that kills the enemy right? (inside joke lol) You rock! 😉
Thanks for the compliment, dear friend! I truly appreciate your endless support! Thanks for the great advice and for sharing your wisdom with all of us!♡
In your awakening I learn from you as well! So thank you!
I would like to say first I admire your strength in sharing your story. Second what an inspiring and well written post from the heart. And lastly for the moment anyway as I have perused your posts it is an honor that you share your gifts, Thank you for doing so, you are truly a Beautiful soul!
Thanks so much for your kind words, iamforchange! I am beyond words right now! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Thank YOU for sharing your talents with us!!!
You are welcome and I am grateful for your kind words as well… Talent? You my friend are talent I am raw and unrefined. I am as you are love in motion however I am still an infant, as I learn and grow your words and love shared may help me to the toddler stage. Thank you again and I look forward to learning and growing with you.
Truly honored to hear that you find my advice transformational! All we could do is put out there the information we have within us hoping that it will impact another person. We are all at different points of the same trajectory, dear friend! Looking forward to learning and growing together, as well.
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well said.
Thanks love!
Yes. Thank you for this. I needed this reminder today!
So glad it was helpful to you! Thank you for checking my blog out!
Number 10 is my fav. you create your reality so true girl 🙂
Thanks, girl! Let’s hope we all keep that in mind for 2013! All the best to you for 2013!
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