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She is a Behavioral Scientist and Clinician with 17 years of experience in mental health, behavioral science, and public health. She is the author of a very tongue-in-cheek relationship wellness blog, "YOU'RE JUST A DUMBASS", to help people select and maintain healthy relationships and avoid some of the difficult life lessons that one encounters in suboptimal relationships. On http://yourejustadumbass.com, she shares techniques that she developed to help clients with creating relationship wellness in their lives. She holds an MSW from the University of Michigan and a BA from Hunter College. She has been featured on FOX, NBC, HuffPostLive, ABC, PR Newswire and Vista magazine.

Want love? Stop doing dumb shit that gets you no one.

February 3, 2015 yourejustadumbassDating

“I want tall, dark, and handsome.” So do plenty of other people. “I want barbie who can cook and clean.” Take a #. The problem with approaching online dating this way is that we’re treating profiles[…]

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5 things you can do right now to change your online dating experience

November 6, 2014 yourejustadumbassCommitment

1. Don’t force fit someone into your life because you are experiencing online dating fatigue. The process of several serial dates with people that you lack chemistry with or experience rejection from people that you[…]

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Want to improve your OKC profile? Christian Rudder tells us how.

September 12, 2014 yourejustadumbassDating

I recently had the honor of being a panelist with Christian Rudder, OkCupid‘s co-founder, on HuffPost Live about his new book Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One’s Looking). On http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/segment/christian-rudder-okcupid-cofounder-dataclysm/53da6a2002a760346200058e  , I had a[…]

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Wow! I’ve Been Nominated For 2014 Small Business Influencer Awards

August 29, 2014 yourejustadumbassblogging

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Silva, Clarissa Nominated For 2014 Small Business Influencer Awards Cleveland, OH, August 29, 2014 – Silva, Clarissa has been nominated for the 2014 Small Business Influencer Awards in the category of Experts.[…]

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Sometimes those that share the most joy in the world are those that suffer silently. RIP Robin Williams

August 12, 2014 yourejustadumbassSelf help

In light of the tragic death of Robin Williams, a true icon that created laughter and inspiration, I feel the need to go off topic. Sometimes those that share the most joy in the world are[…]

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Is there a science to love?

June 26, 2014 yourejustadumbassCognition

I recently had the honor of participating on HuffPost Live’s segment “How We Can Understand Love Through Science” with Dr. Sue Johnson. Dr. Johnson’s book, Love Sense, is a result of her groundbreaking research on[…]

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Top 3 things to help get over an ex.

June 10, 2014 yourejustadumbassBreak ups

Dealing with a break-up, separation or divorce is often difficult. Here are a few things that can help you cope with the break-up, separation or divorce. 1. Try to refrain from highlighting negative things about your[…]

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Really? And that’s why you’re just a dumbass

May 15, 2014 yourejustadumbassDating

Say you want to meet someone that has the potential for long-term,  would you write this? “I think you’re hot. So I’ll lay it all out…I would like to date someone open to BDSM and[…]

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What they don’t tell you about online dating: the mathematics of love.

April 23, 2014October 10, 2016 yourejustadumbassDating

It is estimated that 1 in 4 relationships start online and predicted that 70% will use online dating services in the future. The current reality of online dating:   Approaching dating as though it is[…]

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Online Dating Rituals of the American Male

April 5, 2014 yourejustadumbassDating

Bravo’s latest dating installment “Online Dating Rituals of the American Male” is a hilarious show. Ever wonder why so many of the “Online Dating Rituals of the American Male” guys are being dumbasses? Ever wonder why[…]

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