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She is a Behavioral Scientist and Clinician with 17 years of experience in mental health, behavioral science, and public health. She is the author of a very tongue-in-cheek relationship wellness blog, "YOU'RE JUST A DUMBASS", to help people select and maintain healthy relationships and avoid some of the difficult life lessons that one encounters in suboptimal relationships. On http://yourejustadumbass.com, she shares techniques that she developed to help clients with creating relationship wellness in their lives. She holds an MSW from the University of Michigan and a BA from Hunter College. She has been featured on FOX, NBC, HuffPostLive, ABC, PR Newswire and Vista magazine.

Why men are not idiots and women are not crazy

September 23, 2012 yourejustadumbassDating

We often talk about the differences between men and women’s communication style. I really think the key to this difference are due to our biology. Men behave the way they do because they can’t give[…]

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How to get what you want.

June 25, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

Honesty, communication, and respect are what I believe are the foundation for any good relationship, romantic or not. If you want to improve your relationships, you can begin with working on your communication and listening[…]

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You are not meant to suffer silently.

June 16, 2012November 29, 2016 yourejustadumbassDaddy issues

Since its Father’s Day on Sunday, I have been getting a lot of letters on deep seated pain about daddy issues, parent absenteeism, abandonment, and parent-child reconciliation. I don’t want to minimize the role our[…]

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Stop the head games you play with yourself!

June 11, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

Just because you had a negative experience doesn’t mean that you’re going to have another bad experience. I have often said that relationships should leave visible scars rather than psychological scars. Simply because physical scars[…]

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2 rude bitches:1 is a hooker, the other a whore!

June 8, 2012 yourejustadumbassDating

Act I of the evening Characters: Unsuspecting Idiot #1-my friend Unsuspecting Idiot #2-me Random party “guest”-party crasher Place: Luxury hotel in a metropolitan city So I get invited to an event at an upscale luxury[…]

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You couldn’t even turn off the porn?

May 8, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

The stats on this guy: Age: 40 Occupation: MD Seeking: Long Term Relationship Lavalife, like most online dating sites, has several search options. I met him in the LTR chat section. We had a lot[…]

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I’m sick of paying the price of your past failed relationships!

May 2, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

An Open Letter to Exes Worldwide Dear Ex, I’m sick of paying the price of your past failed relationships. It’s not my fault that you failed at the relationship. Why persecute me for your inability[…]

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Stop dating down!

April 27, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

Ok, so, I told you the WTF? story to tell you this: dating down is a terrible thing. Most of the time when I have dated down, I was hoping that I really wasn’t or[…]

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WTF?

April 24, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

This date is courtesy of our beloved match.com. I am walking up to the door and am greeted by a random guy who knows my name. It’s the guy I am supposed to meet. He[…]

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Stop dating assholes!

April 17, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommitment

Let me give you the timeframe: coke & porn and bucket list boy were all within 1 week. I am a firm believer in giving people opportunities. A friend of mine said “Listen, we all[…]

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