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She is a Behavioral Scientist and Clinician with 17 years of experience in mental health, behavioral science, and public health. She is the author of a very tongue-in-cheek relationship wellness blog, "YOU'RE JUST A DUMBASS", to help people select and maintain healthy relationships and avoid some of the difficult life lessons that one encounters in suboptimal relationships. On http://yourejustadumbass.com, she shares techniques that she developed to help clients with creating relationship wellness in their lives. She holds an MSW from the University of Michigan and a BA from Hunter College. She has been featured on FOX, NBC, HuffPostLive, ABC, PR Newswire and Vista magazine.

Top 10 things women should tell themselves

November 26, 2012 yourejustadumbassCognitive reshifting

Contrary to what we are told and tell ourselves as women, we are really amazing. Think about all the things you manage in a day. Isn’t it really impressive? That’s how we are meant to[…]

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Men, keep it 100: how to stop getting rejected online.

November 19, 2012 yourejustadumbassCommunication

These tips are designed to help men deal with not getting contacted back from women or feeling outright rejection while online dating. 1. If your interested in hook ups, don’t contact women who don’t have[…]

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How the sexes handle hurt

November 14, 2012October 2, 2017 yourejustadumbassCognition

In our quest for happiness and ultimate life satisfaction, we encounter struggles that we try to figure out. Clark Kent & I decided to collaborate to answer some of the questions that men and women struggle[…]

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Top 10 things to stop doing right now

November 12, 2012 yourejustadumbassCognitive reshifting

1. Don’t think that people will change. 2. Don’t settle. In every person you encounter you gain something. Focus on what you gained, instead of what you were disappointed with. Use that list to carry[…]

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Wow! Nominated for the One Lovely Blog Award!

November 8, 2012 yourejustadumbassGratitude

I have had the honor of being nominated for the One Lovely Blog Award from one of my favorite bloggers, needforspeed! She chronicles her life and dating adventures in a smart, honest, poignant and entertaining way![…]

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Death of my former self

October 31, 2012 yourejustadumbassCognitive reshifting

This is extremely difficult to write, but I think my experience may help others. This post is dedicated to my former self and to those that can relate to what I am writing. I hope[…]

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Let’s reframe hurt

October 22, 2012 yourejustadumbassBreak ups

Inspired by Mastin Kipp’s The Daily Love. Love is one of the areas that can cause the most hurt. Whether we are looking for it, dating it, or committed to it; hurt will occur. The[…]

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Self-deception at its best

October 13, 2012 yourejustadumbassBreak ups

Best WTH lines I have heard so far: 1. “Dating while you’re married isn’t cheating”. Explaining some of the difficulties of a marriage after years of divorce. Grounds for divorce: not performing marital duties! WHAT? “Oh really?[…]

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Sex for the psyche! Book Review: Eufeeling! The Art of Inner Peace and Outer Prosperity!

October 7, 2012 yourejustadumbassCognition

Since I am a novice to the Quantum Entrainment (QE) theory and technique and was interested in learning about a technique that would help me to reach a state of higher consciousness, I decided to[…]

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If someone told you relationships are easy, they lied!

October 5, 2012September 28, 2016 yourejustadumbassCommitment

Relationships are not easy. They become less difficult over time. Everyone deals with their past differently: some deny it, repress it, aggress it or accept it as part of life’s cycle. The reality is that[…]

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